On Giving People Advices

I share Alice's problem. "I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it." I am never strong enough to do what I think is right.

For some reasons, people love sharing their problems to me. They ask my advice but they seldom follow it too. Maybe they just need someone to talk to. But I don't think I am such a good listener. I interrupt people when I get an idea. So after every advice I give them I remind them that it's their choice at the end of the day. Then they come back the next day with the same problem. If I were Hannibal Lector, I would've probably eaten their brains already, or serve some parts of their body in my party.

One of the reasons they come to me is because I've already been through a lot already. Don't think it's okay to hurt a person just because he/she's strong.